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过年对父母说的话
很久以来,我看了太多的电视广告和公益宣传都把老人当成了乞讨亲情的乞丐而刻意渲染一种孤独的悲情,儿女却成了可以施舍亲情的施主,逢年过节便要出来做做善事。 由衷地为那些“可怜的父母”感到一点点悲哀。不禁要问,难道上了年纪与我们咫尺天涯的父母,就真的只会是向我们索取的乞丐,甚至是一个难以甩掉的包袱?难道我们成年之后就再没有从父母身上得到过精神上的慰籍或者支持,甚至是物质上的帮助?难道我们这些儿女能够做的,就仅仅是回家转转,吃吃看看? 很多人都不敢否定成年甚至成家以后依然对父母的依赖。不说精神上,很多人还没过断奶期,就说在经济方面,我们这个社会还存在着大量的工作无着的啃老族,即使已经有固定工作,仍然要靠家里经济接济的,也并不在少数。还有很多外出挣钱的年轻父母,直接就把孩子扔给年迈的老人带,除了定期寄点钱回去,一切就撒手不管了。即使是在同城而居,又有多少老人要承担接送孙子孙女上下学的义务? 尽管我们有各种诸如为了谋生,为了给亲人谋取更大的幸福,甚至是为了祖国、为了人民的事业等等各种堂堂正正、高尚无私的理由,但面对已经历经坎坷、饱经磨难却还要为自己的儿女奔波操劳的父母,我们就真的可以心安理得地唱着那首【常回家看看】,以慈善人士自居,让父母“诚惶诚恐”地接受亲情施舍吗?是我们没有摆正心态,还是没有学会感恩? 忙于工作的你们,回家时间不多,更难得和父母聊聊天、谈谈心。过年了,回家多陪陪父母,对父母说出心里最想说的话,对于父母来说,这可能是最好的新礼物了。
今年过年是我近几年在家待得最长的一年,长期在外工作,一直忙忙碌碌,加上思想活跃又不安份的我,挺喜欢过节外出走走,而今年是大年三十回家,待到了昨天下午才回,还是今天要在单位值班。之所以老老实实呆在家过年,是因为去年是个极不平凡的一年,发生很多变故,带来不少创伤,也许人一旦有了忧愁,本能反应就想起世界上最亲近的人----父母,这时的我暖暖的…
去年,生活的重压,破碎的情感,让我如冷水心如残灰,让我淌成一条沉默的河。与父母围坐在一起,冬夜的静谧和淡淡的温馨笼罩着这一片小小的空间,火盆中燃烧的木炭偶尔发出的响动,更增浓了这种气氛。
“啊!外面下雪了。”坐在火盆边烤火的母亲自言自语地嘟哝了一句。
“是呀,难怪这么静呢!”父亲靠着母亲身边坐着,将一双干枯的手伸到火盆上。
望着双亲那写满沧桑的脸,有很多话想说,但欲言又止,那是总觉得愧对她们,长这么大还把自己的烦恼转移给父母,让她们操不完的心,故而沉默…
直到昨天下午回城,太阳挂在西边的天幕上,站在车旁的父母仍在叮嘱:“身体要紧,那个事你想清楚后自己做主,我们不干涉。”此时我内心却有一种说不清的感动或是心痛。
车子开出好远了。我从反光镜里看到父母亲还在向远去的“本田”挥手!泪水情不自禁地涌了出来,心里突然一动,名义上我是在家陪伴双亲过年,可除了能为她们倒杯水扫扫地外,还做了什么?
敬爱的爸妈:过年,太多的话想对你们说,但说什么是好呢?
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1.一个人总要走陌生的路,看陌生的风景,听陌生的歌,然后在某个不经意的瞬间,你会发现,原本是费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就那么忘记了。
One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.
2.幸福,不是长生不老,不是大鱼大肉,不是权倾朝野。幸福是每一个微小的生活愿望达成。当你想吃的时候有得吃,想被爱的时候有人来爱你。
Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.
3.爱情是灯,友情是影子,当灯灭了,你会发现你的周围都是影子。朋友,是在最后可以给你力量的人。
Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.
4.我爱你不是因为你是谁,而是我在你面前可以是谁。
I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.
5.爱情,要么让人成熟,要么让人堕落。
Love makes man grow up or sink down.
6.举得起放得下的叫举重,举得起放不下的叫负重。可惜,大多数人的爱情,都是负重的。
If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.
7.我们每个人都生活在各自的过去中,人们会用一分钟的时间去认识一个人,用一小时的时间去喜欢一个人,再用一天的时间去爱上一个人,到最后呢,却要用一辈子的时间去忘记一个人。
We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.
8.一个人一生可以爱上很多的人,等你获得真正属于你的幸福之后,你就会明白一起的伤痛其实是一种财富,它让你学会更好地去把握和珍惜你爱的人。
One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.
9.年轻的时候会想要谈很多次恋爱,但是随着年龄的增长,终于领悟到爱一个人,就算用一辈子的时间,还是会嫌不够。慢慢地去了解这个人,体谅这个人,直到爱上为止,是需要有非常宽大的胸襟才行。
When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.
10.当明天变成了今天成为了昨天,最后成为记忆里不www.oh100.com再重要的某一天,我们突然发现自己在不知不觉中已被时间推着向前走,这不是静止火车里,与相邻列车交错时,仿佛自己在前进的错觉,而是我们真实的在成长,在这件事里成了另一个自己。
When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.
11.离开我就别安慰我,要知道每一次缝补也会遭遇穿刺的痛。
If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.
12.曾经拥有的,不要忘记。不能得到的,更要珍惜。属于自己的,不要放弃。已经失去的,留作回忆。
Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.
13.我喜欢并习惯了对变化的东西保持着距离,这样才会知道什么是最不会被时间抛弃的准则。比如爱一个人,充满变数,我于是后退一步,静静的看着,直到看见真诚的感情。
I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things.Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.
14.男人的爱是俯视而生,而女人的爱是仰视而生。如果爱情像座山,那么男人越往上走可以俯视的女人就越多,而女人越往上走可以仰视的男人就越少。
Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.
15.好的爱情是你通过一个人看到整个世界,坏的爱情是你为了一个人舍弃世界。
Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.
16.在自己面前,应该一直留有一个地方,独自留在那里。然后去爱。不知道是什么,不知道是谁,不知道如何去爱,也不知道可以爱多久。只是等待一次爱情,也许永远都没有人。可是,这种等待,就是爱情本身。
We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.
17.有谁不曾为那暗恋而痛苦?我们总以为那份痴情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。有一天,暮然回首,我们才发现,它一直都是很轻,很轻的。我们以为爱的很深,很深,来日岁月,会让你知道,它不过很浅,很浅。最深和最重的爱,必须和时日一起成长。
Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.
18.在这个世界上,只有真正快乐的男人,才能带给女人真正的快乐。
In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness
19.女人如果不性感,就要感性;如果没有感性,就要理性;如果没有理性,就要有自知之明;如果连这个都没有了,她只有不幸。
If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.
20.一段不被接受的爱情,需要的不是伤心,而是时间,一段可以用来遗忘的时间。一颗被深深伤了的心,需要的不是同情,而是理解。
An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.
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